Why Narcissists Hate You but Can’t Let You Go REVEALED
2 Dark and Strange Reasons Why They Treat You So Bad but Still Want You Around
A narcissist can never believe they are bad or wicked, they think that they are the perfect epitome of goodness and sunshine.
But something is gnawing away at their psyche.
An inner knowing or conviction of the spirit tells them with certainty that there is a wickedness in their space, that something pervasive and dark is surrounding them, and that they better do something about it immediately.
The problem is that when they look around them, they see you.
It never occurs to the narcissist that if something feels like spiritual rotting garbage wherever they go, that it just might be them.
That spiritual stank mess that is on the inside of them is what they can feel and they really don’t like it, but without somebody around to project that onto they would be stuck with it.
That’s the reason they can never let you go, but they are ever so happy to push you away as far as they can so long as you don’t make it out the door.
If you did, they would be stuck with the realisation that the darkness is all around, but it is coming from inside of them.
It must be since there is no one else there, right?
A narcissist needs to prove that we’re wrong about that which is why they replace the people they lose with new supply.
Now the new supply is the darkness, but if there is no one to replace you because their mask has slipped way too many times then this will lead to mortification or narcissistic collapse.
For a narcissist, facing the truth about themselves will lead to their destruction.
It is like Dorian Grey looking upon his portrait in the attic, and it would have the same effect which is why they must always have someone to project onto.
The second reason why they can’t let you go is that you bring a lot to a narcissist’s table that they wouldn’t otherwise have.
I want you to list three things that you have that a narcissist doesn’t, or only acquired as a direct result of your presence.
You will probably have way more than three things on that list, and that’s because a narcissist is typically always a low-value individual who needs you to survive.
This is why they must tear you down, devalue you and make you feel worthless.
Because the reality is that you are worth more than gold, in fact, you are the only one out of the two of you or your whole narcissistic family that has any value.
That’s why you were the only one who could see through the lies.
They treated you so badly because they knew that if you ever saw it, you’d be gone and you’d never look back.
Start valuing yourself today by doing something nice just for you because the road to freedom out of toxicity starts by putting yourself first a little more each day.
Once you begin to give yourself the love that the narcissist never did, I promise your journey will get easier.